Going on a Gadget Diet
I just wrapped up my TV segment on Seattle KING5′s “New Day Northwest,” a couple of days after my first day of rest from digital media.
I’m not even sure what to call it. It’s not even a rest from all digital media: I’ll still carry a basic phone for emergencies, watch a DVD, listen to music, even read a book on my Kindle (with wireless signal turned off). It’s more an attempt to put the outside world at bay for at least 24 hours. I think there’s a reason why the world’s principle monotheistic faiths (there I go, reverting into my mideast TV journo talk) reserve a day for contemplation and respite from the daily grind. It’s a hope that by disconnecting from the profane, we may connect with something potentially more profound.
Such as family. As we await the birth of our son, I’m reminded of the preciousness of time and focus when we are so starved for both. We didn’t get a chance to play this video during the TV segment, but it says so much about the ubiquitousness of technology and a younger generation’s facility with it (I also didn’t mention that my daughter Rose recently asked me to set aside my newspaper at the breakfast table, “Papa talk only to Rosie!”):
During my own “Off The Grid Saturdays” I finished reading Hamlet’s BlackBerry: A Practical Philosophy for Building a Good Life in the Digital Age by Wiliam Powers. In it, he speaks of “the Vanishing Family Trick” — of his family enjoying each other in the same room, then one after the other excuses themselves and never returns — lost to their screens.
“As I watched the Vanishing Family Trick unfold and played my own part in it, I sometimes felt as if love itself, or the acts of heart and mind that constitute love, were being leached out of the house by our screens.”
I can tell his issue is hitting critical mass by the number of people writing about it, including MCDM alumni Scott Loughran in his new blog, Unplugged Sundays. And you know things are serious when a guy who makes his living off of our online activities says this (as quoted from Hamlet’s Blackberry):
“Turn off your computer. You’re actually going to have to turn off your phone and discover all that is human around us. Nothing beats holding the hand of your grandchild as he walks his first steps.” [Eric Schmidt, CEO Google]
Yes, as a guy who also makes his living from digital media paraphenalia, I’m either coming across as either as a hypocrite or as someone who has seen the light. Nonetheless, I’m keen to explore this issue of balance further, and intend to do so, beginning with the classes that I teach.
[Originally posted to Storyteller Uprising]


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2 Comments, Comment or Ping
pete delaunay
Effective use of these new and emerging tools can enhance family relations and communication as we are more connected with each other than ever. When your daughter reaches my daugther’s age you can bring true relevance to remaining in constant communication! Versus being left in the dark on an information need to know only basis!
Jul 19th, 2010
Annie Katrina Lee
Last weekend, my 16 year old cousin’s Blackberry (yes, a Blackberry) broke down, but I’m not sure which breakdown was worse. A malfunctioning piece of hardware or a teenager’s shattered social life for a mere 48 hours until the phone was replaced.
I was happy hear her admit that it was “nice” to be disconnected for once, but the sad truth is that post-millenial generation (ha, I just made that up) is connected more than ever before. She also didn’t fail mention her peers don’t use email – but I’ll have to revisit when they go to college and enter the workforce. Still, I can see some value in an Outlook/Gmail integration with Facebook. Who knows.
Thanks for the quote by Eric Schmidt. Glad to know that I’m not the only one who enjoys shutting everything down every once in a while.
Jul 28th, 2010
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